Therefore as God"s chosen people ,holy and dearly loved ,clothe yourselves with compassion ,kindness , humility , gentleness , and patience. Colossians 3:12 lf you have a friend with these qualities ,thank God for her .But remember the command in this equation- you are to clothe yourself with these qualities , so you will bring these same qualities to your friendships, Remember , too, that you dont get to choose some of these qualities and ignore the others,They are each to become a part of your personality ......and to be shared with your friends.