This is learned from the fellowship for how to deal and react with my kids.
More encouragement then polishing, to encourage them to reach the goal they set, and reward them, for example, before the exam, let kids set up the target, and treat them a meal if they reach their target.
Spending time with them and adore them in front of them, let them know that we are so happy to have them in my life, because they make my life more complete and fulfillment. (孩子讓我的生命更豐富)
To recognize the kids, do not make negative wording or perspective in their life, always see the positive side of the kids.