Pro 27:14 If a man loudly blesses his neighbor early in the morning, it will be taken as a curse.
箴言27:14 清晨起來、大聲給朋友祝福的、就算是咒詛他。
第六天
Love Dare - Day 6
Choose to react to tough circumstances in your marriage in loving ways instead of with irritation.
請選擇用友愛的方式，而不是用怒火來應對婚姻中的礁石。
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Pro 16:32 Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city.
箴言16:32 不輕易發怒的、勝過勇士。治服己心的、強如取城。
第七天
Love Dare - Day 7
On a sheet of paper, write out positive things about your spouse. At some point during the day, pick a positive attribute from the list and thank your spouse for having the characteristic.
Share with your spouse how glad you are about a success he or she recently enjoyed.
告訴你的配偶，你為他/她最近引以為豪的成就，感到由衷的快樂和喜悅。
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Son 8:6 Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame.
Think of a way to greet your spouse today to reflect your love for them, and then do it with a smile and enthusiasm.
今天，想出一招去問候你的配偶，帶著微笑和熱情使出此招，來表達對配偶的愛意。
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1Pe 5:14 Greet one another with a kiss of love. Peace to all of you who are in Christ.
彼得前書5:14 你們要用愛心彼此親嘴問安。願平安歸與你們凡在基督?的人。
第十天
Love Dare - Day 10
Do something out of the ordinary today for your spouse.
今天，為配偶做點非同尋常的事情。
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Rom 5:8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
羅馬書5:8 惟有基督在我們還作罪人的時候為我們死、 神的愛就在此向我們顯明了。
第十一天
Love Dare - Day 11
What need does your spouse have that you could meet today?
你的配偶有什麽需求正好是你今天可以滿足他/她的？
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Eph 5:28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
以弗所書5:28 丈夫也當照樣愛妻子、如同愛自己的身子。愛妻子、便是愛自己了。
第十二天
Love Dare - Day 12
Demonstrate love by willingly choosing to give in to an area of disagreement between you and your spouse.
為了展示愛情，在你和配偶意見分歧的一個方面，心甘情願地選擇妥協和讓步。
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Php 2:4-5 Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. and I will suggest you to continue: Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.
腓利比書 2:4-5各人不要單顧自己的事、也要顧別人的事。你們當以基督耶穌的心為心。
第十三天
Love Dare - Day 13
Talk with your spouse about establishing healthy rules of engagement and resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs.
和配偶協商，共同規劃健康友好的條約來解決分歧，在以後的意見不合的時候，努力遵守並執行此條約。
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Mar 3:25 If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.
馬可福音3:25 若一家自相分爭、那家就站立不住。
第十四天
Love Dare - Day 14
Purposefully neglect an activity you would normally do so you can spend quality time with your spouse.
為了和配偶有更多高質量的相處時間，有意放棄一項你自己通常會做的活動。
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Ecc 9:9 Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love, all the days of this meaningless life that God has given you under the sun- all your meaningless days. For this is your lot in life and in your toilsome labor under the sun.
Choose a way to show honor and respect to your spouse that is above your normal routine.
選擇一途，超越尋常的自我，來表達對配偶的敬意和尊重。
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1Pe 3:7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
Dare to take God at his word and trust Jesus Christ for salvation.
勇於聽從上帝的話語，並且相信基督耶穌是救主。
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Rom 5:6 You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly.
羅馬書5:6因我們還軟弱的時候、基督就按所定的日期為罪人死。
第二十一天
Love Dare - Day 21
Make time to pray and read your bible today.
今天，擠出時間向上帝禱告，並閱讀聖經。
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Isa 58:11 The LORD will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail.
Choose to be committed to love even if your spouse has lost most of their interest in receiving it.
選擇矢誌不渝地忠於執守你對配偶的愛情，縱然對方已經對此意興闌珊。
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Hos 2:20 I will betroth you in faithfulness, and you will acknowledge the LORD.
何西阿書2:20。也以誠實聘你歸我、你就必認識我耶和華.
第二十三天
Love Dare - Day 23
Remove anything that is hindering your relationship, stealing your affections and turning your heart away from your spouse.
除去所有的”第三者”，這些東西有損健康的夫妻關系，偷竊你對配偶的愛情，奪走你對配偶的愛心。
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1Co 13:5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
歌林多前書13:5 不作害羞的事，不求自己的益處，不輕易發怒，不計算人的惡。
第二十四天
Love Dare - Day 24
Identify every object of lust in your life and remove it.
找出你生命中每一項不良嗜好，並將之拋棄。
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1Jo 2:17 The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever.
約翰一書 2:17 這世界、和其上的情欲、都要過去，惟獨遵行神旨意的、是永遠常存
第二十五天
Love Dare - Day 25
If there is anything you haven’t forgiven in your spouse, forgive it today.
如果還有任何事情你還不曾原諒你的配偶，請在今天原諒他/她。
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2Co 2:10 If you forgive anyone, I also forgive him. And what I have forgiven–if there was anything to forgive–I have forgiven in the sight of Christ for your sake,
歌林多後書 2:10 你們赦免誰、我也赦免誰、我若有所赦免的、是在基督面前為你們赦免的。
第二十六天
Love Dare - Day 26
Ask for God’s forgiveness for your areas of wrongdoing, then humble yourself enough to admit them to your spouse.
祈求上帝原諒你所做過的錯事，然後誠懇謙卑地向你的配偶承認錯誤。
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Rom 2:1 You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things.
Think of one area where your spouse has told you you’re expecting too much, and tell them you’re sorry for being so hard on them about it.
想一想，你的配偶曾告訴你，你對他期望值太高之處。請在今天為之道歉，對不起，在此事上難為了配偶。
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Psa 25:20 Guard my life and rescue me; let me not be put to shame, for I take refuge in you.
詩篇 25:20 求你保護我的性命、搭救我、使我不至羞愧、因為我投靠你。
第二十八天
Love Dare - Day 28
Purpose to do what you can to meet the greatest need in your spouse’s life right now.
今天，傾心傾力，盡己所能來令你配偶人生中最大的願望得以實現。
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1Jo 3:16 This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.
約翰一書3:16 主為我們舍命、我們從此就知道何為愛，我們也當為弟兄舍命。
挑戰第五周
第二十九天
Love Dare - Day 29
Before you see your spouse again today, pray for them by name and for their needs.
今天，在再見到配偶之前，專門為他們的需要祈禱。
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Eph 6:7 Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men.
以弗所書6:7 甘心事奉、好像服事主、不像服事人。
第三十天
Love Dare - Day 30
Ask the Lord to reveal anything in your own heart that is threatening oneness with your spouse and, if appropriate, discuss it openly and seek God for unity.
祈求上帝向你揭示你內心隱藏的有礙夫妻同心的意念，如果可行，和配偶共商，向上帝尋求同一的心。
** 相關聖經啟示
Joh 17:11 I will remain in the world no longer, but they are still in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father, protect them by the power of your name–the name you gave me–so that they may be one as we are one.
1Co 13:8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
Write out a renewal of your vows and place them in your home.
寫出你們結婚誓言的續篇，放於家中，刻在心?。
** 相關聖經啟示
Rut 1:16 But Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.
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